TY - BOOK AU - Coughlin,Paul T. TI - No more Christian nice guy: why being nice-- instead of good-- hurts men, women, and children SN - 0764200925 (hardcover : alk. paper) AV - BV4528.2 .C67 2005 U1 - 248.8/42 22 PY - 2005/// CY - Minneapolis, Minn. PB - Bethany House KW - Christian men KW - Religious life N1 - Christian nice guys aren't so nice -- Jesus the bearded woman -- Other earnest but damaging church messages to men -- Childhood, where we learned to live small -- How being "nice" ruins love and marriage -- We're men, not eunuchs -- Confused to vilified : our culture's view of masculinity -- Nice guy, naïve guy : how being nice hurts men at work -- Masculinity : the journey from nice guy to good guy (part 1) -- Masculinity : the journey from nice guy to good guy (part 2) -- Searching one's soul and facing one's fears -- No more Mr. Nice Guy : practical help for your new life ahead -- God : lion or cocker spaniel? N2 - "Christian nice guys believe in a 'gentle Jesus meek and mild.' Coughlin sets the record straight: a complete man who can be both gentle and bold is Jesus"--Provided by publisher UR - http://www.loc.gov/catdir/toc/ecip0515/2005018447.html ER -