TY - BOOK AU - Judah,Stephen M. TI - Staying together when an affair pulls you apart SN - 0830833994 (pbk. : alk. paper) AV - BV835 .J83 2006 U1 - 248.8/44 22 PY - 2006/// CY - Downers Grove, Ill. PB - InterVarsity Press KW - Marriage KW - Religious aspects KW - Christianity KW - Adultery N1 - Includes bibliographical references (p. [193]-197); Introduction -- pt. 1. Know the terrain. Contours of affairs : attitudes, frequency, and social impact -- Types of affairs -- Causes of affairs -- pt. 2. Ascent into brokenness. Growing up -- Romantic love -- Civil war -- The evolution of affair conditions -- The active affair -- Ascent into brokenness summary -- pt. 3. Descent into wholeness. The revelation : sharing the truth with your spouse -- The crisis : reconciling with your spouse -- Realignment : redefining your character -- Rebuilding : cultivating the positive -- Flourishing : creating the possible -- Epilogue: the scientific and the spiritual -- Appendixes ER -